Free companions to the book
Built from what's inside the book. All free — they just ask for an email once, so Adair can send the occasional note when something useful is added.
Best place to start
Read Chapter 1 of Honoring Their Wishes — the story of how things started going wrong — plus the actual obituary Adair wrote for her mother, with notes on how to adapt it for someone you love.
~10 pages · PDF · email required
For someone in it now · Email required
A printable, day-by-day checklist built from Adair's actual experience the week her mother died and again when her husband died — the things that have to happen first, and the things that can wait until next week.
~14 pages · PDF · printable
For someone planning ahead · Email required
Twelve yes-or-no questions. One point for each yes. Honest scoring on what's already in place, what isn't, and what to do about it.
~6 pages · PDF · print & fill in